Wednesday, June 12, 2024

Review of Carmen Leal's New Book "When Love Wags a Tail" for WOW!



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I'm so excited to share Carmen Leal's new book with you as part of her virtual blog tour with WOW!Women On Writing.  "When Love Wags a Tail" is a collection of true stories from people whose lives have been saved and forever changed by their dog. I love that every author in this book is a senior or close to it. 

This is the second book by Carmen on how dogs rescue us and are so much a part of our lives. I posted about her first book "I Chose You" on my blog here on  April 25, 2023. I was pleased to have my own story about Miss April in Paris included with all the wonderful doggie tales.  Link to that review HERE.  

Carmen's personal story is an amazing one. Carmen Leal never dreamed tragedy could bring positive change. Suffering a traumatic brain injury after a car wreck, the marketing pro struggled to find her center and reclaim her life. But after finally caving in and adopting a rescue dog, her world changed forever.

Flourishing on her new furry friend’s unconditional love, she turned her talents to supporting canines still facing grim futures. Working tirelessly over the course of four years, she’s helped find homes for over 6,500 dogs and collected endless tales of wonderment and triumph.

As a dog lover and one who currently is owned by five rescue Chihuahuas, I love all the stories in "When Love Wags a Tail". These stories are heartwarming, inspirational, humorous, and as in real life, sometimes a little heartbreaking.  Bringing together over sixty snapshots, she connects both dramatic and simply sweet accounts, including her own, while advocating for help and donating a portion of each sale to a foster-to-adoption group.

And I love that these are stories from owners of "a certain age". As someone who is (ahem) older, I identify with finding the right dog at the right time. When I was younger, I had six larger dogs from my local rescue groups, but as I've aged and my joints ache, I've downsized to smaller senior dogs that I can lift and handle on my own.

To quote Carmen, "Finding the right dog at the right time is important. Maybe an eighty-pound shepherd might have worked when I was forty or even fifty, but at seventy a small dog is more maggageable and safer for me. Living in a senior community might mean having to get a dog under twenty-five pounds. Do you have neighbors who will be upset about dogs who bark a lot? "When Love Wags a Tail" is filled with stories that will hopefull teach these and other lessons to my readers."

I can't imagine a life without my dogs, and in my case, multiple dogs. Like potato chips, I can't stop at one. With that thought, I recommend reading BOTH of Carmen's books if you missed the first one, with stories from dog owners of all ages. Her latest, "When Love Wags a Tail" with its focus on stories from seniors and how their lives are better because of the companionship of their dogs, makes my heart sing. It's never too late to find your true love, especially the canine kind.


Links to find Carmen




Wednesday, May 29, 2024

A Little Flower Binge at Home Depot


 I'm not sure I've mentioned it here, but heaven knows I've chatted about it everywhere else. Six weeks ago I did a little slip and fall going out to dinner with friends. Four folks got me up off the pavement and I went on inside Applebees to enjoy my burger. Food first, always. They provided ice in a rubber glove  which a friend duck taped to my slowly swelling knee. He retrieved a roll from his car. Why do all men seem to have duck tape for emergencies? My late husband carried it with him in his brief case all those years ago.

An appointment with the orthopedic doctor confirmed I'm good, but fractured my knee cap. So that's the back story to my shopping spree, small as it was, yesterday at Home Depot right after I left physical therapy. I wanted to plant a few roses and my go to lavender ( a must have always, lavender and rosemary) in the empty pots on my patio. 

At best, before my fall, I rarely went into my yard except to water. Not as good walking as I like, on a cane most days heading out, I didn't want to fall in my yard. You know, on soft grass. Instead I did the hard pavement thing at dinner. My handyman, an old friend for years, had cleaned out the pots of all the dead debris from the previous year shortly after the Applebees incident, and I kept looking at the soil just begging for new life to be planted. 

A quick run through the garden center at Home Depot, holding on to my cart for support, I found my treasures. The rose bush spoke to me, as real as if the petals could turn into words. There were so many beauties, but this sweet one with its small multi-colored blooms said, "Me, me, me!" A breeze gently moved the leaves as though the bush was becokening to me. I lifted it up and put it down.  My attention diverted by a sweet smell.

A lush pink rose (and I have no clue as to roses names, but it was an old rose not a knock-out rose, see I know a little) with a delightful fragrance and huge thorns made me think of arbors and all those photos on Instagram. It was too heavy to lift, and dear friends, that is how I make most of my decisions these days. Can I lift it by myself? No to the pink rose and back to the darling multi-colored peach one. I placed it in my buggy with relief I could handle it. I think I heard it sigh, but that might have been my own heavy breathing at the strenuous shopping activity.

At home in my carport, I pulled my five flowering pots from the back of my van and placed them on the back steps leading into my kitchen. My yard is fenced and gates locked (for my five Chihuahuas' protection. I am also neurotic someone might open a gate and they would run) so I have to bring the plants through the kitchen and den and out the French doors to my little patio. That is today's mission. I was too tired yesterday to take the plants any further than the back steps. I took a nap with the pups and my favorite word tomorrow crossed my mind. Fingers crossed I can plant these without incident later this afternoon. But then again, my lawn man is due this week, perhaps he'll help. 

I'm writing this post this morning because it's easier than working in my garden. Procrastination, another of my great skills. I hate that I have trouble moving around to take care of my plants. Watering is a chore some days. Or maybe I've becom lazy and just let Mother Nature do her thing. She takes better care of my garden than I do.

A charming rose that has the courage to come back each year despite my neglect (It was here when I bought my house in 2020) is in the picture below taken a few days ago.  In my younger days I had my own glorious garden that I diligently maintained. At my age, with my achy joints and now knee on the mend, I'm so much slower. But that doesn't stop me from dreaming of a beautiful garden spot. I am so lucky the previous owners took such care here, planting gardenias, hydrangeas, roses, and many native plants that flourish despite me.

That pink beauty at Home Depot has stayed on my mind overnight. Perhaps one more trip back to buy it. We'll see.




Monday, May 27, 2024

I'm Not Messy, I'm Creative


View of my desk.

Laptop under paintings. 


 I have a big pink mug that assures me I'm creative and not messy. And earlier today I found this quote that may relate to my state of mind. "Messy people are not necessarily sloppy. They just have more ideas than they have places to put them." - Anonymous

Too many ideas clutter my head that range from painting, writing, and collecting things that fill most space in my house. One is never enough. In fact, saying that brings back a funny memory after I became a widow. I disliked my doctor more than I can say. I always left feeling crazy and fat. In those early days as a widow I threw myself into everything. (And I've written about it in two memoirs). Six dogs, three shops spaces in that small area in Old Town, and collecting more cupboards and farm tables than rooms to hold them. So I rented several storage spaces. My doctor suggested I talk to a therapist. Nodding like a puppy I said 'okay' and got a referral. She sent me to a social worker she knew who worked with the prision system. I spent the hour telling him home much I disliked her and not to look for me to come back for another session.

Then I said maybe I had a multiple disorder needing multiples of everything. "Lucky for my husband I only needed one husband. He was 6' 7"." I chuckled at my humor.

"Well, he was so tall, perhaps he seemed like more than just one." 

And I had to pay for this advice.

Sixteen years later, I still think in multiples. A former antique dealer, I can't pass up a treasure. Loving dogs, I have five. My art is stacking all around my desk here in the den.  And I've got several books working away in my mind. I clear table tops and within a week there are piles of treasures stacking up again. 

Creative minds are rarely tidy. I read that today online. I'd like to think I'm creative and not just living in chaos.  Artist, Writer, Collector, Dog Hoarder. That's me. I see beauty in my house when I look around. Canvases piled up, notes tucked hither and yon, dogs sprawled out on the sofa, and little vignettes of small treasures tucked in cupboards when I finally pull it all together. 

I think about downsizing, getting rid of my artistic clutter, and wonder what it would be like to have a normal home with everything in place. Then I laugh. Within 48 hours I'd start fillling my space with things to inspire me, and well, there would be less space for my inspiration to grow.

That's not happening. I am not messy. I am creative. I think I'll focus on that thought for now.

 

 

 



 

Monday, May 6, 2024

Note To Self


 Saw this on Facebook this morning and it was exactly what I needed to read today. I'm always wondering if I'm doing enough, for others, and for myself.  I have what I call a quiet little life. My house, my dogs, my friends, my love of antiques. I am a people person who is becoming more introverted, some by choice, some by circumstance. At 75 heading close to 76 I find I like doing nothing except sitting with my dogs.  I don't even turn on the TV or music. I sit in silence as dusk rolls in, looking out my French doors to the garden (sadly neglected) and watch as my solar lights blink on my fence, happy and content, until I realize I'm home alone every night. Tomorrow, I tell myself, I'll do more tomorrow. And I usually do, working at the art center, painting, my writing not so much as I wonder what I really have to say. Some friends do BIG things (they are a little younger) and I'm envious. Envious that they have the energy and desire to do BIG things. I worry I'm falling behind. Becoming dull, or even lazy. On days I wonder what is my purpose in life. Then I read the above and realized kindness is a great purpose in life. And hopefully I live that every day.  With family, friends, people I meet. Talk to strangers who come in the art center and listen to them. They leave and I've made a new friend. Years ago after I lost my husband and started writing, I did a post about my front door that I painted blue. I found my biggest adventures came right outside that door, in my community. I didn't have to travel far to find what I love best. For me, I've discovered my greatest moments are close to home and after all these years, that is a grand life. I hope my purpose will continue to be there for others, listening, offering friendship, and trying to be the best I can. And the dogs, oh my, the dogs I've taken in and loved. I sit at night and watch them, once lost, now happy and fighting to see who gets to sit on my lap next. I've done well there!

Monday, November 6, 2023

Thankful For Books Giveaway with WOW! Women On Writing


 I'm excited my novella "Christmas With Ginger" is one of the many books in this fabulous giveaway with WOW! Women On Writing. Link HERE to get all the details and enter to win at the bottom of their page on The Muffin. 



                 Read more on Amazon. Paperback only. Kindle will be available later this month.




Sunday, October 22, 2023

"Christmas With Ginger" My New Christmas Novella

 



                                                                         

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About The Book:

Holly Sterling is in the dumps again this Christmas. In her mid-sixties, a widow and orphan, two titles that haunt her since losing her husband and mother six years ago. No family, no real friends, not even a pet, Holly’s coping mechanism is shopping online November and December, buying vintage treasures that remind her of happier times. This holiday nothing helps ease her loneliness. Holly hasn't a clue what to do next.

With a little encouragement from the spirit world, and a tiny Chihuahua named Ginger, Holly’s life is about to change. Add a handsome pet shop owner who likes to play Santa, and his niece who runs a dog rescue group, this sweet story of love, friendship, and adopting dogs, might answer the question “who rescued who?”

Set in a small Georgia town, this novella is a charming holiday read. It's never too late to trust in the magic of new beginnings.


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"It's you!" Some of my friends commented as I talked about the plot. "Well, yes and no." I had to laugh. A widow in her sixties could be me a few years ago. Working at an art gallery, bingo, I do. But Holly has never owned a dog, and my dog numbers vary from five to six. Currently, I am Chihuahua Mama to five little ones. She meets a handsome Santa and romance is in the air. I am still unattached except for my little mafia of dogs.
Real or imagined, in Holly's mind she's convinced her late husband and mother are guiding her to come out of her shell and start living again. Sometimes I do chat with loved ones long gone. And of course, a tiny Chihuahua from Animal Control is the catalyst for all the changes twelve days before Christmas. You should know, Ginger is my little Carmella. I've dedicated the book to her.
Written on a whim, I had fun with this novella. It's only 136 pages, but full of the holiday spirit. I liked writing about a character who is older. Heck, I'm older. You know, having crossed that 75th birthday earlier this year. I wondered if Holly's mannerisms were too youthful, but then realized she is exactly how I would be ......if this story was about me! And it's not.


Available on Amazon paperback only. The kindle version will come out later in November.

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

Santa's Slip Up by Raven Howell Book Review

 




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"Santa's Slip Up" written by Raven Howell Illustration by Savannah Horton

Anyone can make a mistake and Santa has made a big one in this charming and spooky children's book written by Raven Howell and illustrated by Savannah Horton. It's Halloween and all the ghosts and gobblins and other creatures of the night are surprised to hear a cheery "Ho, ho, ho". Santa has come at the wrong tine of year. What could be a disaster is handled with humor and there's a new winner in the Halloween parade.Geared towards older elementary to middle school grade reader. As for me, I love children's books and am excited to have a copy to keep and enjoy, both at Halloween and Christmas!

I reviewed this book as part of the author's blog tour with WOW! Women on Writing. Link here to read Raven Howell's interview on The Muffin and learn more about this award-winning children's author and poet.You can also enter to win a free copy of her book. Below is a list of stops the author will make as she continues on tour with WOW!


Links:

Website: https://www.ravenhowell.com/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/RavenHowellAuthorandPoetPage/

         

 

 

 







Tuesday, April 25, 2023

Book Review "I Chose You" by Carmen Leal

 


Purchase a copy on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Bookshop.org.

 I love this book for two reasons. Well more than two reasons but I'm just listing two. First it is a wonderful collection of dog stories, those kind that fill you with love, make you smile, and some will break your heart. We've all been there. Rescue dogs are the best. Who saved who? I currently have five Chihuahuas all from my local shelters, older dogs that needed a home as much as I needed them. Over the course of fifteen years since I became a widow, rescue dogs have mended my heart and brought me joy beyond words. First they were bigger dogs, but as I aged I needed smaller dogs I could pick up. I will admit Chihuahuas while small are a mafia when in numbers and there is never a dull moment in my house. The second reason I love this book is that I have a story in it, too! Miss  April in Paris, a hunting dog that joined my pack in 2010 and sadly left me a few years ago. Carmen was so gracious to include April's story. I can't recommend this book enough for dog lovers and actually for just the great writing in it. Happy stories and sad stories but owning a dog is full of joy and pain as they never live long enough.

“I Chose You” is organized into sections titled “We Are Family,” “Rescue Me,” “Smile,” "You Are So Beautiful,” “Somebody to Love,” "What I Did for Love,” “Something Good,” "Ac-Cent-Tchu-Ate the Positive,” “Tears in Heaven,”  “Where You Lead," and “Top Six Reasons to Adopt a Rescue Dog.” 

If you missed Carmen's initial interview on The Muffin that kicked off her blog tour link here and read all the wonderful things she has to say plus links to future stops. An amazing women with a huge heart. 


About the author Carmen Leal

Carmen Leal is a storyteller and the author of multiple books, articles, devotionals, and human-interest stories. Carmen relocated from Hawaii to Oshkosh, yes, there is a story behind the move, and has become an awesome dog mom. Carmen and her husband have become reluctant gardeners and know a crazy amount about Wisconsin weeds. She is the mother of two sons, two incredible grandsons, and Coconut, the best imperfectly perfect rescue dog in the world. 

Find Carman online:

http://carmenleal.com/blog




Sunday, March 5, 2023

Hope and Fortune Children's Book by Marissa Banez

 

                                                                         

I'm reviewing this charming children's book as part of the author's blog tour with WOW! Women On Writing. I jumped at the chance to participate because I love children's books and this one is delightful. Its message inspires children and adults who find difficulty being a bit different from others in today's world. Plus, I love the gorgeous illustrations.  A win-win.

The story is about a young girl named Esperanza (her name means hope) who chases a butterfly into the Fabled Fairy Forest. Once in the forest the butterfuly disappears leaving Esperanza lost and scared. The Golden Tree wanted to help her and so he said:

Deep into the Fabled Fairy Forest you should go 

To learn everything you need to know.

Sometimes we all need someone for guidance.

It's scary but we don't need to suffer in silence.

So find the twelve Fortune Fairies at all cost.

They will help you to never again feel lost.

                                                        

From there the story continues with Esperanza encountering twelve diverse, multi-cultural fairies that gift Esperanza with their hope, wisdom, virture, and courage. 

Below is a list of all the stops on the author's tour with WOW! And in case you missed her initial interview  on The Muffin you can link to it here.


About the author:

A first-generation immigrant to the U.S. from the Philippines, Marissa Banez is a graduate of Princeton University and a lawyer licensed to practice in New York, California, and New Jersey. She has published legal articles for the prestigious New York Law Journal and the American Bar Association, but her true passion is in her children's stories. She currently lives in New York City with her husband and daughter. In her free time, Marissa likes to travel, design and make clothes, cook, binge-watch Star Trek shows and Korean dramas, and occasionally strum a guitar.

She is currently working on her second book, Hues and Harmony (How the Singing Rainbow Butterfly Got Her Colors), a story about mixed or multiracial children, self-discovery, and respect for others as told through the life and adventures of a caterpillar. It is scheduled for publication on July 20, 2023.

You can find her online at: Her Website, Facebook, Amazon, Barnes&Noble, Goodreads




 

 


Wednesday, February 8, 2023

Thinking of Spring


 Borrowed this illustration from the web. It made me smile and reminded me spring is coming. I love seed catalogs, especially vintage ones, but reading them is about all I do. I wish I wanted to plant from seed. My late husband always planted seeds in the garden, his spots. Sunflowers and morning glories mostly. He was a patient man. Me? I've got to buy plants to put in the soil. Instant gratification? Yes, I admit it. I love to plant something that is ready to bloom, waiting is hard to do. Especially when the first signs of warm weather creep in I want to see color in my yard. As I type this and look out my french doors, daffodils are in bloom. They come back every year on their own. I'm worried a cold snap will come and they will leave. But for now, they remind me of all the beautiful flowers that will return this year (flowers planted by the previous owners of my house) and have me looking at photos on Instagram of beaufitul gardens, wondering what plants will I buy, bursting with buds, to plant on my patio. Perhaps I'll try a bit of patience and remember that big guy who loved morning glories and sunflowers and buy a few seed packs to see if I have any green in my thumb.

Sunday, February 5, 2023

The Ultimate Brag Book About Yourself by Marla J. Albertie Review

 



I'm reviewing this book as part of the author's blog tour with WOW! Women On Writing. It is a unique concept as it is more of a journal to get you thinking about all the positive things about yourself. A small introduction by the author followed by a hundred questions for you to answer. There are 216 blank lined pages with a topic at the top. Some of the pages are blank lines while others have numbers on the lines to make you work harder to think about multiple answers. While this book is for any time of the year, I loved getting my review copy as the new year started. We all make those resolutions trying to think what changes will make the upcoming year better. This book makes you realize you are pretty cool as you are then goes further to help you plan what's next. Simple? Yes and No. I put on my thinking cap and answered some of the questions and surprised myself. At times we all doubt who we are, what we contribute to the world around us. In all the hurried craziness of life we get lost. I loved finding out so many happy things about myself. Some of the questions in the 100 questions include: 10 strengths of mine are, 10 "me time" things I do for self-care, 20 things I am super great at, 10 things that make me smile, 10 accomplishments I am proud of, my 15 favorite memories, 10 things I'm obsessed with, 10 things I learned from my parents. The list goes on to 100 questions with plenty of room for you to jot down all your answers. I love journaling, writing, and this book is a lovely place to keep my thoughts and create new ideas. A perfect book for yourself or to give as a gift. I'm keeping my copy on my bedside table and at night answering a question or two before I turn out the lights. My dreams will be full of positive thoughts thanks to this sweet book.


About the author, Marla J. Albertie:

Marla believes life is a journey and we can create the life we want. She is the owner and founder of TruthSpeaksGroup LLC, a multi-media company that creates strategies and solutions  for work/life integration/harmony. She is also the founder of MJA Notary Services, LLC, MJA Publishing LLC, and JEMA Holdings LLC, and being the founder of I/O for Teens Inc is her greatest work yet. Marla's mantra is to #TeachTrainEducate working women who desire to understand their truth and live a life of success defined on their own terms. To learn more about the author link to her interview on WOW's The Muffin which kicked off her blog tour and will also give links to her upcoming tour stops.





Thursday, February 2, 2023

Eye Strengthening Exercises for Writers - Author Marla J. Albertie WOW! Blog Tour

Today meet author Marla J. Albertie who has written a fun and amazing book The Ultimate Brag Book About Yourself  that asks you to reflect on 100 questions about “how awesome you are.” I'll be reviewing this book and talking more about Marla on February 5th right here on my blog. So stop back by.

Marla is on blog tour with WOW! Women On Writing and I'm excited to share her guest post with you.  I never thought about eye strengthening exercises. I do know some days after I've been on the computer I feel like my eyes are crossed and my vision blurred. You can bet I'm going to try her suggestions below. You should, too!

    Eye Strengthening Exercises for Writers (Okay, yes, these exercises are for anyone, not just writers.)

By Marla J. Albertie

               Do you have weak eye muscles? This is common among us writers out there, trust me I understand.

I write and look at my computer a lot (as many writers do), therefore my eyes often get tired. I asked my ophthalmologist for tips to strengthen my eye muscles. Here is what I learned to help fellow writers.

*Disclaimer: I am not an eye doctor. Please see your eye doctor if you have a serious condition. These are simple eye exercises anyone can do to strengthen their eyes*

Here are two eye exercises to build strength:

Exercise One

Look up

Look up and left

Look up and right

Look left

Look right

Look down

Look down and right

Look down and left

Repeat 2–3 times daily

Exercise Two

Hold your arms out to the side (like the wings of an airplane) with your thumbs up. Keep your head straight and look straight ahead. While keeping your head still, move your eyes to the far left and right trying to look at your thumbs. Repeat 2–3 times daily.

Do these daily and you will build your eye strength and your 80-year-old self will thank you.

More about the author and her book!



Purchase a copy of the book on Amazon or get an autographed copy off the author's website. You can also add it to Goodreads.

Marla believes life is a journey and we all can create the life we want so why not; you only live this life once. She has a passion to see growth in peoples’ lives and wants others to pay it forward.

See her original interview on The Muffin and follow the links for her month-long tour with WOW!
 Main Site: truthspeaksgroup.com
Follow her as a writer on Medium
Subscribe to her blog: www.theworkingwoman.co
Take a course at Truth Speaks Academy
Subscribe to my talk show on YouTube: https://youtu.be/faUFIqU8pHs



Monday, January 16, 2023

Remembering Kurt Vonnegut

 Go into the arts. I'm not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable. Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow, for heaven's sake. Sing in the shower. Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something. ~Kurt Vonnegut

(Book: A Man Without a Country)

Friday, January 6, 2023

Member's Show Monroe-Walton Center for The Arts

 I have three paintings in the MWCA member's art show. The artwork in this show is fabulous. You need to stop by and see the show. Link to MWCA's Facebook Page, like it, and keep in the flow of all the wonderful shows, classes, meetings, events, etc.  Link here to like and get all the scoop on what an art center can offer.

My work:


Dove

                                                                       Pink Jungle


                                                                     Blackbird Garden


I like to visit thrift shops and pick up vintage cardboard framed prints. Like to paint my own images and voila, it's already framed. The first two paintings were on recycled framed prints. The last one on a canvas and in an old Victorian frame. Recycle, recycle, recycle. I never paint over someone else's original work. I honor their paintings - good or bad - as original art. Most of the time a piece will wind up in my personal collection of art by other artists.

Wednesday, January 4, 2023

2023 Time To Bloom

 

     I'm not making any promises about changes in 2023. Sometimes old, comfortable habits are the hardest to break. And what do I think I want to do differently in 2023? I have a sweet life that works for me - my house, my friends, my long distance sis and brother, my books, art, and of course the dogs. The cherry on top is the Monroe-Walton Center for the Arts. Who could ask for anything more?

     Yet at night sitting in the den I love to sit and create in, surrounded by my dogs, I wonder what is missing. And I'd already figured that one out at the beginning of November. People are missing. I rarely have anyone over to visit, have dinner, a glass of wine (or in my case diet soda). 

     I've decided it's time to open my doors and invite friends to join me. I'm going to bloom friendships this year. My excuses that the house is a mess with my painting supplies, art stacked everywhere, thrift store purchases on the dining room table, and four naughty (but darn adorable) Chihuahuas who still will poop on the floor in front of company no longer will be my excuses.

    The house got straightened up for the holidays and a few friends stopped in. I was in heaven. This will continue, I promise myself. And my friends are awesome. No one blinked an eye when Odette peed in the hallway and then came dancing back out to sit on someone's lap.

     I'll keep you posted. And don't be surprised if I invite you over for dinner. The next big hurdle for me. Cooking.

     Wishing everyone a glorious and loving 2023.


Tuesday, December 20, 2022

Bears, Bears, and more Bears. Confession Of A Bear Addict




Every year I fall into the same pattern beginning in November and carrying through to mid-December. I either buy vintage quilts or old worn bears. This year it's bears. My doctor told me I'm very insightful on my motives for doing things. I do analyze myself more than I should. The reason I've written my two memoirs. Writing helps me figure out what I'm doing. It's a  healing process but at times it points to my neurotic side. Mostly my purchasing of quilts and bears at Christmas.

This is what I know. I buy things around the holidays that remind me of my younger years. When I had my husband and my mother. Happy times when I sold on eBay, too. And as an antique dealer for so many years, buying for resale. It's a hard habit to stop, buying for resale when you no longer do shows or have a booth. I forget that. The thrill of my purchase, that special find, so comforting and exciting.

Bears remind me of my mother especially. She collected newer bears and they filled a cupboard in her living room. For me, the bears had to be antique. Worn mohair to the point of baldness, shoe button or glass eyes that hung loosely, and joints in as bad shape as my own joints. I've gone overboard this year with bears, way too many purchased, but as a former antique dealer, I sought out those on eBay that were underpriced. Twenty to sixty dollars for old as dirt teddy bears, where others were several hundred dollars. With the money I spent, I could have bought a most awesome bear for big bucks, but that is not what I do. Many bears, the more the merrier, at affordable prices. That way, if I need to sell a few, I can move them quickly. Chances are they will all stay with me as I'm very fond of each and have given them names and stories. 

By January I'll shake my head and mumble "What was I thinking?"  But for now, I'll share some photos of my stash. As I told a dear friend recently, buying bears is better than large cupboards (another big passion of mine) and to make those around me happier, I'm holding off on adopting another dog. (for now, no promises for later),

I'd like to say living alone all these years has made me a little odd, but if I look back, I've always loved old things (except old men, but that's another story for another day). My buying habits quirky, but money spent on recapturing memories and still have things I can sell on days I need more cash. 

Could you pass up these sweet bears if you were on a shopping spree? It's not just about the bears, but all the memoires they bring with them.

Monday, November 28, 2022

My Christmas Novella Takes Flight

 




I don't feel I've written a book unless I take it on tour with WOW! Women On Writing, and A Wingman for Christmas is no exception. Online tour starts November 28th. Here is a link to the kickoff and dates I'll stop by to chat!


Sunday, November 6, 2022

Book Launch "A Wingman For Christmas" at the Monroe-Walton Center for the Arts

 


My official book launch for "A Wingman for Christmas" at the Monroe-Walton Center for the Arts. A perfect setting at my favorite place. All sales rang up as a donation for the Art Center. A glorious day filled with friendship.


Thursday, April 21, 2022

Chicken Love - No Not A Recipe Post - An Art Post

 






I really wanted chickens, but with all my Chihuahuas, decided it was best to let that idea fly the coop. Instead, I started painting my ladies with their pet hens and roosters. Above are two of my favorites. They have since sold.

One of my favorite books, and I have to say I'm a proud owner of it, is Once Upon a Flock: Life With My Soulful Chickens by Lauren Scheuer. It is delightful with her experiences and drawings added on top of photos. A gem on Amazon.




Review of Carmen Leal's New Book "When Love Wags a Tail" for WOW!

Purchase a copy of " When Love Wags a Tail"  on   Amazon ,  Barnes and Noble , and  Bookshop.org . I'm so excited to share Car...